no offense but if liking a ship that’s built on trust and friendship and exists between two characters who bring out the best in each other is ~vanilla~ and boring then im the boringest vanilla bitch to ever boring
Listen, I enjoy sh@tt (if they’re the same age since that handbook isn’t canon apparently) but I always get nervous when it’s on my dash since a ton of people draw Matt wearing green and for a split second I’m like “who the FUCK is putting sh//dge on my dash?!?!”
I am always 30 minutes early to everything as I get anxious that I might be late and then the person I am meeting is always 15 minutes late and I am just standing there for ages hating myself
Im serious y’all, if you’re reading a fanfiction about someone with a vagina getting penetrated for the first time and its all blood and tears please click out right away and realize the author knows nothing about sex ed and really should not be spreading mis-information to the young teens that will inevitably come across their work
Sex is not supposed to hurt
Oh and new rule TERFs arent allowed to reblog this post bye
You know, when I was a kid in fandom and I saw a popular ship of, say, a 16 year old and a 25 year old, I was like “of course there’s nothing wrong with this! Age is just a number! Besides, it’s only 9 years!!!”
But now that I am an adult, I’m on the other side of that age gap, and frankly I am disgusted. If you’re a teenager, trust me I get it- it’s really easy to see that as ok especially if your identified as “mature for your age” but let me tell you it is not. It is not ok for an adult to be in a romantic or sexual relationship with a child. At all. That adult is 100% taking advantage of that teenager and is competently aware of what they’re doing and it’s gross.