deerbait:

ill be real those posts going around directed towards “younger people in fandom” about how its Okay To Enjoy Problematic Things In Fiction make me wildly uncomfortable bc ive seen 0 posts for younger fandom members about how older people will find you enjoying your “problematic faves” and will groom you into thinking these things Are okay in real life and put you in really dangerous situations

if an older fandom person comes to you talking about their Problematic Trash Ships or Gross Nasty Trash Kinks Ohoho dont talk to them, block them if they keep trying to talk to you after you’ve told them you’re uncomfortable

there’s no reason why they should be talking to you, a minor, one-on-one like that rather than other older people, and their Problematic™ shit like underaged pairings and incest and violent abusive ships are Not okay, there is no real world where you’ll go and talk to an adult and they’ll tell you you’re overreacting about an incestuous or pedophilic ship making you uncomfortable

dont talk to adults who make you feel like youre overreacting over things that make you uncomfortable